Does your brother-in-law remind you of someone else in your past? Or is the problem your changed relationship with your sister? Working that out could reduce your annoyance

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Accepting you can no longer do things is a huge deal, so this will need to be handled very sensitively

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My mother-in-law is still d…

There’s this idea that friendships should just happen, but they need input and confidence
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A couple of years ago, I moved to a new …

How we’re parented deeply affects us but it doesn’t determine how we are as parents ourselves. It sounds as if your boyfriend understands this

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There are genuine concerns about young people using social media, but the main thing is that you talk to your parents about it
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You’ve been married for 50 years and you’re in love, so maybe you just speak a different ‘love language’

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I have been married to my…

Focus on yourself and your own self-worth, and you never know what may follow.
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I’m a 40-year-old man who has used da…

The first priority must be the safety of the most vulnerable – your mother and your sister’s children

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I’m a 40-year-old man and wo…

Your sadness at losing reminders of happier times may have been heightened by the traumatic loss of your dad

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Not long before the C…

Lots of adolescents like you missed out on key developmental stages during Covid. Taking risks is scary – but so is missing opportunities
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