I have been married for 20 years and, when we tied the knot, I was madly in love with a gorgeous man I thought perfect in nearly every way. Now we are in our 40s, I'm afraid I'm not so sure.
I adopted my son at two; he's now 40 and has always been a problem. He has never shown any emotion, was always in trouble at school and couldn't hold down a job.
DEAR BEL: I'm 57 and was with my wonderful husband since the age of 20. However David died two years ago from cancer. Now I've fallen in love with his brother.