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The Trans Kids Who Threw Their Own Prom

The Atlantic

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Photographs by Eva O’Leary

Landon was supposed to be at her high-school graduation on Saturday. Instead, she was preparing to travel to Washington, D.C. By Monday, the 17-year-old from Gulfport, Mississippi, was wearing a long, sleek blue dress and dancing in front of the U.S. Capitol with about 100 of her transgender peers at the Trans Youth Prom.

Landon’s plans changed earlier this month after Harrison County School District Superintendent Mitchell King informed her that she needed to dress as a boy during the graduation ceremony, and not in a dress and heels as she’d planned. (Landon’s parents requested that she be identified by her first name only to protect her privacy.) After a federal judge on Friday denied a motion filed by the American Civil Liberties Union on her behalf demanding that she be allowed to wear her dress, she decided not to attend.

Landon had been out as a trans girl at her high school for four years and told me her classmates were in her corner. But ultimately she decided not to walk, because she did not want to attend an event that “does not support me,” she said. “There was no care; there was no compassion. It felt disrespectful,” she said.

But at the Capitol, there was no shortage of love and support. This prom was created by four kids—Daniel Trujillo, 15; Libby Gonzales, 13; Grayson McFerrin, 12; and Hobbes Chukumba, 16—with the help of some adult organizers as a way of celebrating being trans.

Left: Quetzal Gonzalez, 16, escapes the heat by eating an ice pop under a tree. Right: An attendee holds up a sign outside the U.S. Supreme Court after the Trans Youth Prom. Two hundred trans youths and their parents, as well as trans adults, protested outside the Supreme Court, where the words Equal Justice Under Law are etched above the entrance.

After exiting a bus in front of the Capitol Reflecting Pool, the kids and teens marched in their formal wear down a grassy runway flanked by cheering organizers, parents, and supporters who held up trans and gender-nonbinary flags and signs that read Trans kids have always existed, Trans youth are powerful, and Celebrate trans joy. The youth entered the party, dance music already blasting, through a large arch made of color-changing glass topped with the words You are loved.

Unlike a typical high-school prom, the event also included teens that had already completed high school. Alongside the drag queen Stormie Daie—the event’s emcee—they took turns showing off their moves inside a dance circle to hits by Lizzo, Lil Nas X, Madonna, and others. Occasionally, they would duck into the shade of nearby trees or chat and take pictures with family and friends.

Harleigh Walker, 16, and her father, Jeff Walker, in front of the Capitol Reflecting Pool. The Walkers traveled to Washington, D.C., from Auburn, Alabama, to attend the event. Left: Willow Soto holds a trans flag and flowers at the steps of the Supreme Court. Right: Landon holds the trans and gender-nonbinary flags next to her mother, Samantha. Landon decided not to attend her high-school graduation after she was informed that she would not be able to wear a dress to the ceremony. Many of the youths who attended traveled with their parents from hometowns where their gender identity is affirmed and embraced. Some came from states where politicians have been debating and legislating the details of their life.

Many of the youths who attended had traveled with their parents from hometowns where their gender identity is affirmed and embraced. Some came from states where politicians have been debating and legislating the details of their life—whether they can receive transition-related medical care, for example, or compete on sports teams that match their gender identity. In 2023 alone, more than 500 bills that would restrict the rights of transgender people have been introduced. (More than 70 of them have passed so far.)

Attendees of the Trans Youth Prom marched from the Capitol Reflecting Pool to the Supreme Court. In 2023 alone, more than 500 bills that would restrict the rights of transgender people have been introduced.

Left: Hildie Edwards walks through a decorative gate at the Trans Youth Prom. Right: The drag queen Stormie Daie, who served as the Trans Youth Prom’s emcee, walks through a large arch made of color-changing glass.

Michelle Callahan-DuMont and her husband, Andy DuMont, flew with their 9-year-old daughter, Violet, from Tucson, Arizona, to D.C. for the prom. Violet wore a sequined gold-and-blue dress that she told me she’d bought at Dillard’s. Her favorite music to dance to is techno, she said. As Michelle told me, “We’re always talking about the sad things; we’re always talking about the scary things, talking about maybe having to move out of state. And so for this weekend, we’re just having fun.” She said that during a dinner for the event the night before, Violet had told her parents: “This is the best day of my life.”

Zoé Anspach at the Trans Youth Prom on Monday To attendees, the happiness on display at the Trans Youth Prom was, in itself, an act of protest.

The choice of prom, a quintessential coming-of-age milestone for American kids, was deliberate: a message that lawmakers can’t take away people’s childhoods, Chase Strangio, one of the event’s adult organizers and the deputy director for transgender justice at the ACLU, told me. “This is trans people defining their joy on their own terms, coming together to say, ‘Enough. We don’t need you to debate us any longer. We know exactly who we are.’”

After the speeches and dancing, about 200 people in attendance marched down Constitution Avenue, chanting and cheering to music, before stopping at the steps of the Supreme Court. Underneath the words Equal Justice Under Law etched on the front of the high court, they chanted: “Trans rights are human rights!”

Left: Violet DuMont, 9, traveled with her parents to D.C. from Tucson, Arizona. Her mother, Michelle Callahan-DuMont, said, “We’re always talking about the sad things; we’re always talking about the scary things, talking about maybe having to move out of state. And so for this weekend, we’re just having fun.” Right: Prom attendees march to the Capitol. The group protested anti-trans legislation with banners and signs outside the Supreme Court.